Be Prepared

Here are a couple of quick tips:

• When you send out Ceremony ONLY invites, please make sure they are in very simple wording so that even a 5 year old would understand that they are for the CEREMONY ONLY. (We sent ours out yesterday to people at my work - I work in a team of 35 so there's no way we would invite them all! I've had people asking me if it's BYO etc etc etc - I had to send an email out this afternoon EXPLAINING what Ceremony Only meant....)
• NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE GOING TO RSVP! GET READY TO CHASE THEM! Can you believe 11 days out from our wedding I am STILL chasing people for RSVPs? I find this pathetic on their behalf, but unfortunately it happens.
• Things are going to get stressful the closer you get. Try to take a nights time out and just vege on the couch (truthfully - we have done this all week, since our big "garden working bee" over the weekend!)
• Allow your Bridesmaids to pull out - I know this sounds insane..... One of my bridesmaids has now (I think) pulled out. She is having some VERY personal problems and suffering from Anxiety. I actually offered for her to pull out (I still haven't had it confirmed though), she is afraid it will ruin our friendship! I would prefer for her to be mind happy :)
• STAY RELAXED AND POSITIVE!

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